Friday, September 15, 2006

 

My father

To answer what Ann asks in her comment, my father recovered fully and went back to work as an engineer in the Travancore Government. He retired and gave all his attention to looking after his cardamom estate in the hills near Kumily. He built a beautiful cottage in the hills and all his children and grandchildren had a lovely time there, where everybody played chess and badminton and went for long walks.
My father lived up to the age of 97. My mother passed away at the age of 63, when my father was 68. Even after my mother’s death, he continued to stay in his house in Nedungadapally. My children and I went to stay with him during the children’s holidays and he kept us entertained teaching chess, table tennis, badminton and various games.
After he was 80, he left for Trivandrum to stay with one of his sons and family. At that time he designed and constructed my house in Trivandrum. Later, he supervised construction of my sister’s house, which was built opposite mine.
He later moved to Coimbatore—maybe when he was almost 90—to my eldest brother’s house, where he organised bridge evenings roping in his sons (2 in Coimbatore then), daughters-in-law and friends. He was a great man.
This is a picture of my father when he was about 85 maybe.

Comments:
I can hear your pride in your Dad from reading your post. I enjoyed seeing the picture of the old car and it remended me of the old car my Dad had when I was small. Somewhere I have a picture of me standing on the old running board when I was little. You described the car so well. It brought back some old memories.
Sounds like you Dad was a lot like my Dad with many talents and always handy to help his Family whenever they needed him.
Love reading your stories. I was gone for a few days to attend the Funeral for my older sister`s husband so I am late catching up reading your newer posts. keep posting.
 
your father looks like such a sweetheart.
 
RC takes after MP Mani. He wrote a series of short stories about his experiences when he was in his nineties. Hilarious! Enjoyable! Informative! RC's stories bring the same immediacy and reality to that wonderful time in India - pre-independence with the first glimmer of a great re-awakening of an ancient and wonderful civilization.
 
Ma, I love your blogs. They are great. You always were a wonderful storyteller. Keep them coming.
 
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