Wednesday, October 04, 2006
67 years Ago
67 Years Ago
My parents-in-law stayed in a village in
It was an agriculture community mainly cultivating rice in the low-lying paddy fields. Coconut trees were grown on the higher land. The labourers were mostly of the ‘lower caste’ who lived on the land of the landlords. They were paid so many measures of grain as their wages, every evening. During the lean months, in karkidagom (July), when there was no cultivation, the poor people took loans of grain from the land lords!
There was no electricity. But we had beautiful lamps, which were cleaned and filled with kerosene and lighted in the evenings.
There was a canal adjacent to our property and beyond that were rice fields stretching as far as the eye could see. During the monsoon the fields were full of water and it looked like a big ocean. How beautiful it was.
Once we, Ammachy, Sarasu and I got into the boat to go to Niranam. Our old Chacko Chettan—the boat man-- manoeuvred the boat with his long bamboo pole in to the bigger stream and from there on to the
I bet you have a lot of great recipes made with rice. I often cook rice for different dishes. One of my favorite is my Mothers cooked rice recipe,but it takes a few hours to make it. Since my mother passed away I was asked to keep making it for our large family picnic every year. I have never seen a real rice field. We can`t grow rice where I live. It must be something to see the rice fields expanding off so far. Do you call them paddy fields, or is this just an expression from some other country?
My grandfather used to be in charge of the large barge that went up and down the Canal. My Mother was born on this barge. By the time I was born they no longer had the barges, so I have never seen what they looked like. I would love to have seen the barge my mother was born on. my grandfather passed away when my mother was just a teenager, so I never met him.
thanks for telling me more about your life and your country.
I love you Mummy……
1. For giving me all those wonderful times at Trivandrum which can never ever be replaced
- berry plucking (followed by you making berry juice for us)
- going to the zoo
- having flavoured milk (even now whenever I have flavoured milk I always think of you)
- buttered toast (toast made in that old toaster of yours) and yummy yummy mango preserve and chilled lassis!
- playing tolly gunge sitting in your giant kuttakams filled 3/4th with water
- singing all those hymns with you (I remember one specific time when you were frying pappadams and I sat on the kitchen counter with the golden bells and kept singing along with you)
2. For being more modern and interesting than any other grandmother I have ever known.
- reading through “Beautiful Mind” even though the book was small print and so difficult for you to read
- learning to use the computer and surf the internet
- the fact that I can even today place bets with you
- you knitted me a bright blue tube top! I must say that even most of the kids in my class were not modern enough to appreciate tube tops.
3. For always being genuinely interested in my life, and then that of Robi’s and mine, and then now of Karan’s.
4. For having a wonderful sense of humour and a great spirit in life, even when you are depressed
- wanting to wear short tops with mundu and getting them specially bought/made
- singing in the shower to lift your spirits
5. For having looked after Appachen and Ammanikochamma without ever complaining.
6. For being my Amma’s best friend (I think we share that position)
7. For being so compassionate (though stern as well) not just with family and extended family but even with house help and others.
8. For taking down the words of the song “after flying all day long…” cos I sang it in school for a school play and you liked it so much. And for recording me singing while I was pregnant.
9. And even for being stubborn as hell! (I don’t know why, but this is one of the reasons I am fondest of you).
10. For making all those wonderful ‘udups’ for Karan. They are still intact and I am saving them for my next child.
11. Oh and for buying Ro and me roller-skates and sending us for skating lessons to the zoo, and then for taking care of me when I hurt my back falling off while skating at the Shanmugam skating rink after I became good at skating!
Thank you for being so wonderful and for being you!
please give me your email id so that i can send this to you.
From her comments, I can tell that you are also a wonderful grandmother.
Lawyeramma, your amma must be very proud of you.
mummy, how are you feeling? Based on the fact that there are no more posts from you, I presume you're not doing that good.
Take care of yourself. I love knowing you thru your granddaughters eyes.
I love your posts. Keep writing! You have so many eager readers wanting to know about those bygone days...
May Gog give you health, happiness and long life. I can understand that you have a wonderful family too!
Nice knowing you.
Hope you are feeling good and enjoying yourself with lots of visits from your family. Wishing you the very best.
Please write about your time in Bombay in the early forties, just before independence. Also about the long driving trip in the blue Dodge Kingsway from Bombay to Delhi in 1960. Devi Singh the drive, dacoits near Gwalior, the Jain temple in Indore, Fatehpur Sikri, Taj Mahal, the wonderful PWD guest houses we stayed in en route (with the pankawallah) and finally 12 Akbar Road. G
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